UnSpokeEn
Today, no one actually says what's on their mind. WELL, i will. Im not aggressive but i am not shy. I feel as though i am just real. A perfect balance of both.
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jagged beauty: Tumblr is funny for lots of reasons...
I NEED HELP GUYS!!!
So the guy I was seeing last year, whom i adored, left me for another girl. He had said he only met her a couple times before. According to her Tumblr page, they have been seeing each other for a very long time, meaning.. he played me. I had asked him about this girl before…
Let her know! Because she may not have any idea. I was in the same boat and she hated me for a while but really appreciated the fact that I was able to tell her. Id want to be told so do the right thing and dont let some other girl get effed over like you did!
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a question, after midnight.
“how will this end?”
you asked
and i took your hand in mine.
“i don’t know,” was my reply.
“all i have for you
is a beginning.”
No one knows how things will end. Try not to focus on the next chapter in life until youve completed the one your in.
(Source: thedustdancestoo)
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Do u have any regrets?
I do not regret anything that i have done or gone hough in life because i made the conscious decision to make those choices and i have to sack up and deal with the consequences, but in return it will make me nothing but a stronger person and less of a coward. Now…. there aree some times and things that I am not very proud of like.. drunken nights…. stupid text messages…. dub Facebook posts…. and sometimes i cant stop my mouth quick enough before i say something to get me in trouble. BUT I am glad it all happened because i am who i am. If you don’t like me for being human and making mistakes but being woman enough to excel through them… then Fuck You! haha I don’t waste my time with haters. I have better things to do in life. Don’t sweat the small stuff. Live life, make a name for yourself, live past your days on this earth!
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Troubled Hearts Advice
Heres the real deal, everyone gets hurt, everyone is scared, and everyone wants to be loved. Those 3 things can literally ruin someone. Ill be honest you should always have your guard up everyday to everyone because unfortunately that is the type of world we live in. But that level of guarding yourself is up to you. You need to be able to decide for yourself who is worth getting hurt over. Who deserves to even get close enough to hurt you. And if that guy in your life is the one that your okay with stepping inside your comfort zone of trust then you are giving him the ability to crush you, but your trusting him that he wont. That is love. Whether in love or pure love that is the deepest, rarest, purest form of love. Im not saying this guy is perfect by all means because 90% of the time that guy you let in to love you will end up hurting you. But then thats a judge of your strength. Are you strong enough to take from what you learned by letting him in to the next person you feel weak for. Nothing i say is easy its all very difficult to do and if you want to cry or scream over it DO IT! And i could go on for hours because this is not something said in a few paragraphs. But you should be the one to write it. No one else. Love, and feelings are uncontrollable senses. No one can correctly tell you how to love someone or yourself. This is why we were made to be ourselves and independent. This is a decision you need to make for yourself. Are you going to live your life never risking someone getting close to you therefore becoming isolated in life and love? Because honestly, that will ruin you, it will drive you insane literally into the psych ward at your nearest hospital. Or are you going to be that person who is a little timid, no so aggressive and makes sure that whoever she is willing to give her heart to is worth her getting her heart broken for. Because even though getting your heartbroken feels like someone is playing with the levels of oxygen in your lungs, your more okay with it being that person that you loved and that person that worked for your trust rather then just some guy who said your pretty (like most girls do).
In buddhas words “You as much as anyone in the entire universe, deserve your love and respect.”
But what you do with that opportunity is on you. Not to blame the guys in this world, but yourself that you are not willing to let it happen.
Another cliche quote: “Its better to have loved and lost, then to have never loved at all.”
And this is no joke. Life without love is hell, literally. Its nothing. Because nothing in this world could have been made possible without love. So take a chance, learn to let your guard down a little for the right people and whether the outcome is in your favor or not, the long-term result will be eternal happiness. Hope this helped. Good-luck
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WTF is Tumblr…..
Hello Tumblr world,
My name is Danielle I am a college student who has a little time on her hands and decided to fill it with this weird blog thinggy!
To sum me up, im a girl who hates college but still goes, who tries her best to not conform to societies outline, makes herself cry to love music, accepts the fact that there is no prince charming, love my family, doesnt hate anything or anyone, tries to please everyone, carries the world i created on my shoulders, still trying to find my place in the world, and want to make a differnce. Tries her best to set an example but in no ways asks anyone to follow. Makes mistakes everyday, but carries the lessons along with her.
If your wondering why im talking in 3rd person its becasue i am kind of odd and sometimes do things that make no sense to anyone but me. On this thing i will be talking about everyday problems or issues or venting or excitement or nerves or anger or pity ETC. Facebook no longer cares about what i have to say so i have moved to this.
If you do not care about anything i have to say, thats your problem. I prefer to be as open and real as i can and if i offend anyone….. again…. your problem. If you want real talk, talk to me!
Thanks, #Nothingbettertodo
